I was going about my Twitter timeline when I saw a a tweet from a friend of mine:
"What makes two people come together? By fate or destiny?"
"What makes two people come together? CHOICE."
You choose your fate, you choose your destiny. Basically, it all comes down to CHOICE... whether you want it bad enough or not, whether it's worth it or a waste of a time, whether it's good or bad, right or wrong.