Mara is currently obsessing (yet again) with Greg Behrendt's and Liz Tuccillo's bestselling book entitled He's Just Not That Into You.
Stop.
Why am I referring to myself as a third person?
As I was saying, since 2 nights ago I have been listening nonstop to my audiobook of the said title. Not obsessing enough?
First, I have read the book way before there was a movie or even an idea of making of the movie.
Second, I watched the movie at least 5 times even though I was not as satisfied with it as I was with the book (the book is way better).
Third, I uploaded my audiobook in my iPod about a year or two ago and listened to it while on the road from Manila to Ilocos which is about a 6 to 8 hour drive.
Fourth, by the time we reached our house in Ilocos I listened to it again every night until the day we headed back to Manila again.
Fifth, I sent 2 girl friends a copy of the audio book and lent one friend my book (which I never got back).
And now after months of hiatus from the copy, I am back on obsessing again this time with the audiobook PLUS e-book. How obsessed can I get, huh?
Don't laugh. No, I'm not crazy.
Something just happened and I need a reassurance of some sort. Something that will keep my mind straight and prevent me from doing damage to my self-esteem. It's actually helping. It's like a slap-in-the-face-kick-in-the-ass-shake-back-to-reality kind of awakening and I have this book to thank. Most of what's written in the book is easy to do, you might also think that no one needs such books because it's all common sense and just a waste of time. But no, this book will be your best friend (aside from your Bible if you are religious).
Not convinced?
Here are some parts/quotes from the book that will open your minds and will make you love yourself and know your worth:
If a dude isn’t calling you when he
says he will, or making sure you know that he’s dating you, then you already have your answer. Stop
making excuses for him, his actions are screaming the truth: He’s just not that into you.
If a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons he needs to take things slow, he will let you know that
immediately. He won’t keep you guessing, because he’ll want to make sure you don’t get frustrated and
go away.
“Give me a call.” “E-mail me.” “Tell Joey we should all hang out sometime.” Don’t let him trick you into
asking him out. When men want you, they do the work. I know it sounds old school, but when men like
women, they ask them out.
The big question here is, “Is it okay for a guy to forget to call me?” I’m saying to you, “No.” Barring
disaster—someone had to be rushed to the hospital, he was just fired from his job, someone keyed his
Ferrari (kidding)—he should never forget to call you. If I like you, I don’t forget you, ever. Don’t you
want the guy who’ll forget about all the other things in his life before he forgets about you?
I’m about to make a wild, extreme, and severe relationship rule: The word “busy” is a load of crap and is
most often used by assholes. The word “busy” is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems
like a good excuse, but in fact, in every silo you uncover, all you’re going to find is a man who didn’t
care enough to call. Remember: Men are never too busy to get what they want.
From this moment on, right now, as you read this, make this solemn vow about your future romantic
relationships: no more murky, no more gray, no more unidentified, and no more undeclared. And if at all
possible, try to know someone as best you can before you get naked with them.
So, have I got your interest already? Girls? Ladies? Get a copy of the book, the audiobook or the e-book and give this a read. It will change your life. Did I mention that this is a light feel-good read? I love the authors' style and when you hear the authors in the audiobook it's much better. Greg Behrendt is now MY guy. :)